Teenage daughter dating a loser

Teenagers might get swept away in a love-at-first-sight relationship, enjoying every moment and blissfully ignoring any warning signs.While parents might want to boot their child's unimpressive boyfriend to the curb, meddling in a child's relationship rarely leads to a positive outcome for anyone.

Teenagers might get swept away in a love-at-first-sight relationship, enjoying every moment and blissfully ignoring any warning signs.While parents might want to boot their child's unimpressive boyfriend to the curb, meddling in a child's relationship rarely leads to a positive outcome for anyone.

We tried to make them break up but she said she’d kill herself or runaway if we called the law on him. I felt like something was wrong with him so ran background check, found out he is 28, has no job, no phone, no car, no money and lives with grandmother.If I did, I’d be able to put my kids through college and then some, I kid you not.But all the stories are a little bit different and each one involves someone’s kid.Now, my parents talk down about her dad and me and tell her she doesn’t have to even listen to us because she is grown.We took away her car because he was driving it on our insurance and our dime but ended up giving it back for her safety; she’s in college and was walking at night.But since your daughter is 18 and not living under your roof, your authority is not what it once was.However, I would think they would side with you, given that they know first hand, the difficulties of parenting. You can ask them why but their actions seem to indicate that the relationship between you and them is more convoluted than can be addressed in this space.When we took her car, her boyfriend got mad and tried to press charges on me for “harassing” my daughter when I was only calling her on the phone to make sure she was okay.I’ve already canceled her insurance but my parents added her on their policy. I will only pay for her orthodontist and that’s it. He is a lazy, no good bum and I think he is on drugs.Ask yourself whether a child's partner is really a "loser." Does he treat your daughter well and does your daughter seem happy dating him?While your child's boyfriend might not be an exceptional student or a hard worker, your daughter might be content with dating him for now.