MY goal is to educate, because even though BPD only makes up for about 5% of the female population these women usually have a lot more partners than the average chick making the odds of running into one much higher.And if you date long enough you probably will Spent a ton of years of my youth dating a BPD.
To experience what appears to be intense passion and emotion which can quickly switch to complete callous disregard is not a pleasant way to have a relationship.
If I knew what I was dealing with sooner i would have walked away way before I did.
and you eventually, once you can't live up to the perfect man she thought could rescue you from her horrible dark life - always complaining about little aches and pains- my back hurts, my head hurts, etc.
- all of her exes are *******s or abusive, she's had numerous burnout relationships but the breakup NEVER had anything to do with her Roll Eyes - can't hold down jobs ...usually it's their boss was trying to get in their pants or some bull**** - likes pain from tattoos,piercings in weird places, kinky sex, etc - rebound relationships- there is always another guy and her bed never gets cold. Sometimes just goes cold overnight - extremely sensitive, starts crying over bull****..flips out when you don't text her back in time really scared of abandonment - poor relationship with her mother or an abusive mother - they see ghosts, believe in magic, etc - usually have some sort of music running through their head *always pick 4 crew* *conservative crew* *son or coathanger crew* *women shouldn't be allowed to vote crew* *always tells the truth even if it hurts crew* Some people cry and some people die by the wicked ways of love But I'll just keep on rolling along with the grace of the Lord above No empathy, no feeling, empty at the core of their personality/soul Manipulative, lying, triangulates relationships Makes you feel like the king n then devalues you, causes you to wonder where that person went that you knew aka "splitting" A lot a girls do it several times in the initial few days/weeks to see how far you will go; they do it even to the handsome guys they are interested in.
I think a lot of guys come to this forum because they have in one way or another dated a woman with a borderline.
In a nutshell these women (labeled as BPD or cluster B's will be the best you ever had in bed, will satisfy your ego in a way that no other woman will ever have, and provide such a high for you at the beginning of a relationship most normal women you meet will be boring to you.Let's say you are banging one and she's hot and you are aware of her mental illness.I would still not advise sleeping with one because very few men are mentally tough enough to do so with a BPD.I can honestly say though that after the breakup I was just emotional drained, confused, and doubted myself for the first time in my life. The reason why you read so many threads about guys dealing with these types of women lies in the fact that these are the only type of women who have the ability to drive an otherwise normal guy to the point where he desperately needs to find emotional support.The scary part is if they're high functioning borderlines (like I'm assuming yours was) is that they actually have the ability to appear rational and quite normal at times so if they do contact you after the breakup (and they always do guys) you may find yourself getting reeled back in before you know it, hell I questioned my own sanity at that point. i honestly dont know, out of all the girls i ever dated only one was able to legitimately make me feel worthless.One of the most emotionally taxing and confusing experiences of my life.They take lying to a new level and actually convince themselves that their feelings for you are the real deal...while still coldly doing all kinds of sketchy **** when you aren't around.maybe i should be glad she left me for someone else. I truly believe these women sub consciously seek out guys like us, an insecure weak man is of no use to these women because they break.i've done way too much reading on this because when something liek that happens to you, you want to search for answers. the only guys likely to stick around long enough for them to suck the life out of is a narcissistic dude who won't take any ****.These women literally are like a drug.make you feel like you can work at some **** hole like burger king the rest of your life but everything will still be ok as long as you have each other.that's why PTS is very common for men getting divorced with these women.