“I don't think it's your writing he's interested in,” she said.
We literally talked for 20 minutes and then went and had sex.She is drawn to you for the same reason so many men chase younger women: she is attracted by your youthful enthusiasm. If you are just a boy toy she turns to for sex, she will get bored with you quickly.She loves your appetite for life and is intoxicated by your ambition and the fact that so much of your life is ahead of you. If you have goals and tell her about them, it will definitely turn her on.Make no mistake — older women are looking for men, not boys. Nothing is more attractive to her than a young guy who can fill her needs as a man and in the sack. Part of the turn-on of an older woman is her intellect and accomplishments.But you’re in luck — she’s going to be attracted to you before you even open your mouth. It’s going to end eventually, so don’t talk about a relationship with her. Don’t talk about your feelings and emotions and how you’re falling for her unless she does it first. She’s looking to enjoy herself because most of the men in her age range are not in the physical shape she desires and are already broken and destroyed. In order to succeed, she probably had to be smarter than the men around her.While I did get some messages from men closer to my own age, they were in the minority.When I actively searched profiles of men in their early- and mid-thirties, I noticed that many specified that they preferred women in their twenties.Eventually, we arranged to meet at a cafe near my apartment.At the meeting, we spent over an hour discussing his writing.It seemed as if my friend's instincts were off, I thought. Earlier in our meeting, Bob described moving to the area as a 30-year-old in 1978 – the year I was born.But just as I was about to leave, Bob admitted that he was not that interested in me as a writing coach, but as a romantic prospect. Yet when I rejected him, he looked stung and startled, as though he was completely unaware of our significant age difference.