I didn’t get around to making a video, so I wasn’t far into the process." MORE: Bachelor Nation Is Divided Over Arie Luyendyk Jr.Announcement: The Internet's Best Reactions Stempfley says ABC has not reached out to her about possibly coming onto the show as a suitor or guest. “I would need to think it through before coming up with a definite answer," she says.All in all, I guess we were just progressing at different rates."“We really stayed focused on living in the moment and enjoying the time we spent together, so [it was] just one of those things we didn’t really talk much about," she says, when asked if the two ever talked about having kids or getting married in the future. For more on his casting announcement, watch the video below!Tags: Live adult chat rooms that are freereservations for two datingsex dating in greece new yorkchinese men dating habitsdeaf dating connectionpoly dating seattleFree no login or registraion sex chat sites
The former couple also introduced each other to their friends as boyfriend and girlfriend.
She says they even spent holidays together.“I attended all of his family holidays including Thanksgiving and Christmas," she claims, adding that just within this year, she traveled with the reality star to three of his out-of-state races.“My family was head over heels about him," she shares.
"But I do feel like I have questions, of course, [like], 'Is this the reason? ' That's probably my biggest question."As for what went wrong, Stempfley says she's "not totally sure" and hopes that she'll one day get closure."I loved him and he led me to believe that he loved me too," she admits.
"We never said it, I think probably because we’re both very stubborn, but I thought the feeling was mutual.
When ET asked if she thought had anything to do with their breakup, she says, "I would like to think it didn't.""You can only believe what someone tells you, so, you know, there’s no proof that he had been auditioning or talking to producers at that point," she explains.
“The only thing I have to go off of is his word." WATCH: ABC Exec Reveals Why Arie Luyendyk Jr.We kind of talked off and on just through Instagram, but I landed a job in Scottsdale after graduating [Miami University in Ohio]," she explains."I flew out to search for apartments, so I messaged Arie and I told him that I would be in the area and he asked me out on our first date.""We hit it off right away and started dating as soon as I moved here," she adds."To my knowledge, the relationship was monogamous."The blond beauty tells ET she and Luyendyk Jr.went on their first date in July 2016, and recently celebrated their one-year anniversary by going back to the restaurant where they first met: Chelsea's Kitchen.She felt their relationship was serious and would like to think he did too.When ET asked Stempfley if any cheating was involved, she said, "I mean, I would hope not.""I’m not assuming anything, I just...And he also actually lived with me for a few months while he rented out his house back at the beginning of the year.""He typically rented it out during race season, so he was kind of gone a lot," she adds."But when he was in town he stayed with me and he asked [if he could]."Flash forward to July 31, 2017, when everything seemingly changed overnight. It was just a regular day, so it definitely caught me by surprise."They thought he was very charming and very sweet and they really liked him.[Arie and I] traveled together and I went to his races to support him.