And hey, maybe he’s even smart and organized enough for you to make him your “study buddy.” Study dates are pretty much the best dates most college girls can hope for within the first month or so of school (news flash: college guys are usually cheap).
It’s not fair to the guy if you’re just not that into him, but you keep him around because he’s, like, obsessed with you.
Who, you ask, knew there was such a science behind college guys, anyway? Well, maybe, but there might be a little bit more to it.
Here are the guidelines of how to deal with the ones who are, and the ones who aren’t. These guys will be super fun to hang out with once they get to know each other well, and you’ll be the cool girl who can get in on that action when you need a break from girl drama.
When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.
Just because he’s sitting alone and doesn’t speak to anyone in the class doesn’t mean he’s a total lunatic.
Because I have been a school counselor since (cough) 2000, I have accumulated and created lots of documents.
If you love forms as much as me, you will LOVE this blog post!!
He might have no idea that what he’s doing is hurting your relationships with your friends, but it’s up to you guys to stop him by cutting him out of the equation.
He’s graduating sooner than you are, and he knows it.