Dating a childless man

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I have to say questions like this irks me sometimes, Im one of those guys in my 40's never had children and Im not planning to have any, I have 4 godchildren, was there for their birth, did the burping, feeding, changed diapers, weekends at my place to give the parents a break, so ive been a part time dad, full time godfather.What irks me is women like automatically assume something is wrong with us because 1) never had children or 2) never been married, look how many single dads out there, half time dads, has their kids every other weekend if at all, bitter custody battles, baby mama drama, you would think we would be consider a decent catch because we haven't been tainted by the stigma of divorced single parent and all the trappings that follows.

I have to say questions like this irks me sometimes, Im one of those guys in my 40's never had children and Im not planning to have any, I have 4 godchildren, was there for their birth, did the burping, feeding, changed diapers, weekends at my place to give the parents a break, so ive been a part time dad, full time godfather.What irks me is women like automatically assume something is wrong with us because 1) never had children or 2) never been married, look how many single dads out there, half time dads, has their kids every other weekend if at all, bitter custody battles, baby mama drama, you would think we would be consider a decent catch because we haven't been tainted by the stigma of divorced single parent and all the trappings that follows.And then how they relate to women in the same age range who more likely than not have had children and a marriage. For both women and men, just because you are "allowed" to do something, doesn't mean you should do it!!!!!

Can a single guy relate to a woman that has children?

of course, it depends on the maturity of the guy, if he's a party animal that is care free and loose, of course not, if he's mature, responsible and understands single moms are not like their single counterpart and can accept being in second position to the kids then they have a chance to succeed.

Many men purposely choose NOT to have children...is often because of job issues, school, lifestyle, economics...child-bearing/rearing can be put on hold...remember that men don't have so-called biologic clocks like women.secondly, don't make the mistake of thinking that these men have few women to choose from!

.......have way more than you think, especially in big cities!!!! A single man over forty, with no kids, a good job, good health, and who is at least semi-good looking..be able to date women MUCH YOUNGER than himself....usually somebody hotter than any contemporary...i was 40, i would rarely consider dating any woman my age because i didn't have to.

I have nothing personal against women with kids..believe me when i say that there are few men over 40 without kids, who aspire to date women with 1 or more kids (unless they have an incredible yearning to care and nurture young kids)...their ideal is to always find a mate who is often childless..they could focus all their emotions on each other.......a woman with kids will always put her kids first (and so it should be), and it gets way more complicated if there is an Ex in the picture. Whether that's by chance or choice, that 's their problem or prerogative.

If you like them with children, there is no shortage of those, either. I know several over 40 guys who never married and never had kids.(hey, they make great wingmen/LOL)anyways..just never wanted to. Guys don't have that biological clock ticking that women do. Not sure if I pity them..envy em.:-PUhm............I something think its a insult and narrow mindedness of the person that thinks something must be wrong with the guy if he hasn't had children?do you know how many dead beat fathers and loser fathers out there?As for them seeking and getting much younger women...well, there is a saying that age is the great equalizer between men and women and that's true.Youch, "what happened" sounds sorta like an accusation to my eyes, did you mean it like that? They decided not to by being extra careful when having sex They had themselves "fixed"Kids are NOT their cup of tea Their boys can't swim They just haven't found someone who they see fitto be the mother of their kids Could they want to date a woman with kids?What might have happened is they didn't become parents like millions do by unintentionally impregnating one or more equally un-thinking, un-safe, un-responsible sex-havers. I am really curious how they missed having children or getting married. Everybody is different"Hmmph, well you are no fun."Yes, I've been told that!There are "others" that are soooo stupid they think breeding is like a 5 minute effort and that's it, so their seed is spread with no forthought on their actions.Honestly OP, do YOU THINK that EVERYONE should have kids???????As for those that think my original post is a bit harsh, I did not mean it to be.I really honestly do wonder how and why men in their 40s did not have children or (many times too) did not get married at least once.

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