Here are a few texts used by real guys to flirt with text:“Hey Pretty Lady”“What’s up Buttercup” (I know that seems lame, but it is so lame it is cute.)“Are you busy? ” 2) Visit her world Ask for the link to her Instragram or Facebook profile and see what she is interested in. I love when a man reads one of my articles and lets me know.
A mention of an author I admire or a group I support…the Humane Society or a song I love shows me he is interested in ME, not just my lady bits.3) Meet and Greet If you get a hit and a nice chat develops, set up a coffee date so you can meet in person.
It had been a very long time since I had felt anything like this.
My ex was older than me and sex wasn’t interesting to him anymore.
) and follow up with a couple of questions from her profile.. She will touch your arm, play with her hair and lean forward toward you. If a woman allows you to hold her like this, you are creating real magic.5) Naked? Stay tuned for Part 2 of this series on Cougar Dating.
(Secret Cub Tip: You give the greatest gift of all when you delay sex, even in cyber). Many Cougars are Truly Touch Starved Studies show that older women treasure cuddling, fondling and kissing more than intercourse (especially in any cyber or texting relationship). Well, yes, eventually, but you will thrill her if you stroke her with her clothes on. Catherine Behan is an author, Cougar Cub Dating Coach and sex and romance expert.I really don’t remember how I reacted when he told me how old he really was. He was on a project at my work so he would come and go with no set schedule.I tried to shut my mind up about his age and just enjoy his attention, but it wasn’t easy. The next thing I knew he was kissing the back of my neck. I never imagined that hot young guys would think a woman my age is sexy.Then this happened:“How old are you,” I asked.“52.”I laughed.Some of the men may even be great partners but they will never know. What did my current lover do to break down my defenses and let him get close enough to run his fingers through my hair?Here is what turned me from a nervous Cougar-Wanna-Be (completely unconvinced that he could really, really be attracted to my cute, adorable but older ass) to a Cougar who knows her body, her sexual ability and enjoys herself thoroughly. (And all of this from an grown up Catholic school girl) Guys, so few men approach me like a lady and I can promise you that if you follow these tips you will really stand out.There is a woman inside that body you are horny for. It feels amazing to have a man’s hands on my body with fabric in between. She writes a column for Your and gives helpful tips on her websites, Cougar Cub and Breakup She teaches that there is a little bit of sweet in every breakup and that when you find, accept and finally celebrate the end of a relationship, attracting true love is possible.If you can make it a point to get to that woman inside you may just open a sexual dynamo. Rather than trying to reach in and take her clothes off or get your hands under to the skin beneath, touch her as if she was naked. This kind of making out can happen in the back of a car or in a theater….stolen kisses in public places are intoxicating. Catherine is also Editor in Chief at Angels Fantasyland.com, Erotic Romance Writer’s Network, where men co-write erotica with female writers.Beat the competition out there and find yourself a lovely lady to tease and please.1) Flirt Flirting is a lost art.Tease her and let her know you are interested but do not, I repeat, do NOT, use any sex talk or innuendo for the first several text messages.